When I start posting this entry to my blog, I just finished reading a book entitled Quite Time, by Johann S. Lee a Singaporean writer who based in London. That is a good piece from the writer and I'm still looking for the first 2 books of him.
It's not the book I want to share in this entry, but more about the essential of being gay. I guess people in society have tendency to judge gay people are sinner, practice free sex, fling and all those negative comments. I guess that's understandable if we would like to be honest with what we do and what we live on...it's no harm from a couple who put them 'in relationship' label but they are still seeing someone else and fucking around with other guys out there, for some gay people...this concept is understandable, but most people can't get the point of the relationship should be put in this way...once I asked my friend what the open relationship is? and what is the point you commit in a relationship but it's open? My friend draw a line...gay couple relationship is different with straight couple relationship, it's more complicated, need variation to spice up the sex life, as for this they alternate for open relationship which meant both of the couple could see other party to have some 'action', to release the lust for sex and to experience something different...I'm not going to judge whether it's right or wrong here, as for me...wrong things could be right in different condition, so...it's not an abosolute...but the bottom line is...could we expect the people out there accept this and do they think this is normal? I guess, it's a BIG NO...so, why should we get pissed off if those people have such negative image about gay people? That image live in the society for years. If we want to change the image, start it from own self...after all, image is not created in one night but it could be totally ruined in a minute...
Another thing I like from the book is the paternal-ship of gay man...gay men have their own children, adopted or surrogated...but, again...society is not an easy issue to deal with. We may say f*ck off to those people, but they are still there...The only way is to deal with them...
